Should i be hurt or get over it?

That is so rude. Don't take your wonderful child to them. She is a clean slate and as long as you treat her right, your fine. They clearly want your attention but want to keep their ego. Hold out on them. They will come along, and when they do confront them. Tell them that it is your child and you do not want such egotistical people surrounding her. Either they will apologize and get over their ego or they will leave, soon get over their ego, and come back. Either way you win. It is patience. And knowing these kinds of people, they can't wait long.